We are not our past.
Our past is not our future.
I will be remembered as a person preoccupied with many things - one of which is advocacy for those who truly need advocacy.
I will be remembered as a trouble-maker by abusers, and as an advocate by victims.
That is a certainty - no matter what forums I visit or who my family is or was or where I come from. Growing up a victim does not make me a victim still; nor does it ensure that I will be a victimizer.
We all grow and change. I will also be remembered for that. I hope we all will be remembered for growth and change because of this board and because of how we live our lives away from the Internet.
I am sure it is happening.
Love and healing and hope to all!